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DURING OUR 10TH YEAR ANNIVERSARY DINNER, I STOOD IN FRONT OF PEOPLE WITH A BLACK EYE.
“I absolutely do,” Emily cut in. “And so does she.”
For the first time that evening, Mark looked rattled. He scanned the room, searching for support, but found none. His coworkers avoided his gaze. One friend quietly pushed his chair back. Even his mother stared at him with something resembling shame.
Emily turned to me. “You don’t have to face this alone anymore,” she said gently.
“I’m done,” I said, softly but firmly. “I’m leaving.”
Mark let out a strained laugh, scrambling to regain control. “You’re overreacting. You’re making a scene.”
The restaurant staff had stopped pretending not to notice. A manager lingered nearby. Someone had already contacted security. Lauren began crying, insisting it was “just family stuff.” Denise remained silent.
The weeks afterward were difficult, but they were real. I moved into Emily’s guest room with one suitcase and a storm of emotions. Fear came first—fear of starting over at thirty-five, fear of retaliation, fear of admitting how long I’d endured it. But relief followed, calm and constant.