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Nothing fixed itself overnight. Her dementia didn’t disappear. Some days she knew me. Some days she didn’t. But the grief shifted. It had a shape now. A face.
Tara and I learned how to be siblings as adults, awkwardly and honestly. We fixed paperwork. Corrected records. Sat through hold music together.
Because sometimes the person in the dark isn’t a threat.
Sometimes it’s a life unraveling.