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To Meghan, “Sussex” isn’t just a title attached to her marriage. It’s a label that, in her view, represents the household she and Harry built. She framed it as a family decision and, more than that, as a symbol of unity: one name for Archie, Lili, Harry, and herself. She’s echoed that idea outside the show as well, describing the name as something that holds emotional weight and feels tied to their relationship story.
It also doesn’t help that the public has been trained to treat royal names like a rulebook. In everyday life, a surname is usually a fixed thing: your legal name, your documents, your identity. In royal life, names can be fluid, situational, and sometimes strategic. Titles can function like surnames. Family names can be used or dropped depending on context. And the same person might be known by different names in different spaces—formal, professional, ceremonial, or private.
That’s exactly where the criticism comes in. Some royal watchers argue that “Sussex” is a courtesy title, not a true last name, and that Meghan’s legal surname should be “Mountbatten-Windsor.” They point out that “Sussex” is a county, not a conventional surname, and question the optics of adopting a place-based title as if it were a standard family name. Others take a more pointed angle, claiming she has little connection to Sussex as a place and therefore shouldn’t treat it as personal identity.
Even the way the name is spoken has become part of the story. Meghan has been introduced in at least one major talk-show setting as “Meghan Sussex,” which made the change feel more official to viewers, even if it was just a host following Meghan’s own preference. Hearing it out loud—rather than reading it in a headline—made it real in a way that immediately triggered more commentary. To supporters, it sounded clean and consistent. To critics, it sounded like a title being forced into a format it doesn’t belong in.
The situation is also tied up in the broader, never-ending tug-of-war over what Meghan “should” do. When she uses “Markle,” she’s accused of clinging to celebrity. When she uses “Sussex,” she’s accused of clinging to royalty. When she uses her title, she’s accused of hypocrisy. When she drops it, she’s accused of disrespect. The goalposts move because, for many people, the reaction isn’t really about the name. It’s about the person.
Strip away the noise, and what’s left is a fairly straightforward reality: royals and royal-adjacent figures often use titles as surnames in practice. It’s not unheard of for princes and their families to use a territorial designation as a working name, especially in settings that require a last name but aren’t fully formal. Prince Harry did something similar earlier in life when he used a different title-based surname during his military service. Under that tradition, “Sussex” functions as a practical family identifier tied to the dukedom.