Woman comes out as abrosexual after 30-year journey

Flint, who was 32 when she wrote the article, talks about her years of believing she was a lesbian, then having times when she was attracted to men, then feeling attracted to no one, and then back to feeling attracted to women again.

For many years, she said she felt “unsure of who I was.”

“I felt lost, like I was out in the ocean. I also felt like a fake because I changed how I identified when talking to my friends and family,” explains the freelancer from Staffordshire, England.

“It wasn’t that I couldn’t decide, but my identity changed,” she said. “One day I felt like a lesbian, but then days or weeks later, I’d feel more connected to being bisexual. My sexuality was always changing.”