Some bikers were painting my mother’s house pink after she died at 4 a.m., and I didn’t know any of them.Some bikers were painting my mother’s house pink after she died at 4 a.m., and I didn’t know any of them.

else laughed. “But she insisted on making it anyway.”

Each story was a thread, and slowly, they wove together into something larger.

A version of my mother I hadn’t fully known—but instantly recognized.

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### Letting Go of Control

At some point, I stopped questioning what was happening.

I stopped worrying about the logistics, the neighbors, the fact that continue reading …